PSA for Crazy Chics of The World

In lieu of the recent incidents which have claimed the lives of Steve McNair, Arturo Gatti, Chris Henry, and both Chris Brown and Tiger Woods' careers I decided to let you women (especially the sista gurls out there) know what you look like to the rest of us. It's always good to get a perspective from outside your own viewpoint. So this is how you come off when you tell it like it is, REGARDLESS of what you think or hope you do. Learn and Enjoy...

 So to all you women who think that sass is Cool and think an attitude makes you unique from everybody else, know that it's really harming you in everybody else's eyes. And not just those who you call haters, but some of those same people who you blame for putting a glass ceiling over you. They don't have a problem with promoting a woman. They have a problem with promoting a ticking timebomb with makeup on.

There is nothing wrong with being a strong, deep principled, woman of distinction, who won't be a pushover. But when you confuse that with being a loud mouth, eye rollin, finger snappin, weave takin out/wig takin off, earring unclipping, "Oh no you di-ent!!!" yellin, Tasha Mack scene makin, "I keeps it real!" drama bringing Tasmanian Devil; you'll be the only one that loses that game.

You want equal rights in this world? Well along with equal priviledges comes equal accountability.

• Which means NO MATTER what happened in your 'dispute' you don't leave a fellow human being, especially if they are your FIANCE, on the side of the road dying. 
• It means no matter how many woman a terrible person like Tiger cheats with, you don't take money that YOU didn't work for,  regardless of whether it means millions are coming out of their pocket or a couple dollars. 
• It means you don't ASSUME that the phrase domestic dispute means a guy HAD to be beating on the girl because a woman would NEVER be able to inflict physical or emotional harm on a strong man. I'd venture to say most if not all female on male physical abuse cases don't get reported cause the guy knows he won't be met with the same sympathy and care the woman would, but instead would meet a chorus of laughter and questions about his manhood. SMH
• This means you don't fight a man like a man, and then act surprised when he can't take it anymore, and to quote Dr. Frederick G. Sanford, "gives you one right cross your lip." It's human instinct to fight back when someone is unleashing their attack mode on you. This goes for the whole spectrum. Both Ray Lewis and Mother Teresa will get it the same if they get physical...
  
• It means not assuming because the guy in a relationship does something wrong, that the woman can't be possibly to blame. 
• It means not taking the SistaGurl Consulting Network's advice and opinions on EVERYTHING. 

• Finally it means NOT HAVING A CHIP ON YOUR SHOULDER ABOUT EVERYTHING...  
  

We all have some work to do ladies, both men AND women. But this shit is unacceptable...